Saturday, January 31, 2026

THE RULES OF NIKAH: (Bedroom Etiquettes In ISLAM) [notes]

   بِسْمِ اللَّـهِ الرَّحْمَـٰنِ الرَّحِيمِ

THE RULES OF NIKAH:  

(BEDROOM ETIQUETTES IN ISLAM)

1. You should pray to Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ) and beg Him constantly for righteous wives and kids

At-Taghabun 64|14|O you who have believed, indeed, among your wives and your children are enemies to you, so beware of them. But if you pardon and overlook and forgive - then indeed, Allah is Forgiving and Merciful.

-Sincere believers should pray constantly for the comfort of our eyes

Al Furqan 25|74|And those who say, "Our Lord, grant us from among our wives and offspring comfort to our eyes and make us an example for the righteous."

2.  Marry someone (if there is chemistry and you're 100% sure - physical attraction)

An-Nisa 4|3|And if you fear that you will not deal justly with the orphan girls, then marry those that please you of [other] women, two or three or four. But if you fear that you will not be just, then [marry only] one or those your right hand possesses. That is more suitable that you may not incline [to injustice].

The Rasool () instructed his Sahabah to look at their fiancée 

From Abu Hurayrah: “I was with the Prophet () when a man came and told him that he had married a woman of the Ansar. The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said to him, ‘Have you seen her?’ He said, ‘No.’ He said, ‘Go and look at her, for there is something in the eyes of the Ansar.” (Reported by Muslim, no. 1424; and by al-Daaraqutni, 3/253 (34))

3.  When you marry the woman place your hand on her forehead and recite the dua

"O Allaah, I ask You for the good in her and the good with which You have created her, and I seek refuge in You from the evil in her and the evil with which You have created her."  [Abu Dawood and others]

4.  The wife should beautify herself on her wedding night

-you can wear lingerie and stockings and makeup and perfume, and this is encouraged

Asmaa' bint Yazid ibn As-Sakan: "I beautified 'As'ishah for Allaah's Messenger, then called him to come to see her unveiled. He came, sat next to her, and brought a large cup of milk from which he drank. Then, he offered it to 'Aa'ishah, but she lowered her head and felt shy. I scolded her and said to her: "Take from the hand of the Prophet." She then took it and drank some. Then, the Prophet () said to her, "Give some to your companion." At that point, I said: "O Messenger of Allaah, rather take it yourself and drink, and then give it to me from your hand." He took it, drank some, and then offered it to me. I sat down and put it on my knees. Then, I began rotating it and following it with my lips in order that I might hit the spot from which the Prophet had drunk. Then, the Prophet () said about some women who were there with me: "Give them some." But, they said: "We don't want it." (ie. we are not hungry). The Prophet () said: "Do not combine hunger and fibbing!" [Ahmad and al-Humaidi. Ahmad reports it with 2 Isnaad - one of which supports the other, and it is supported...]"

5.  Pray two rakat together  (from scholars not the Rasool )

- this is Islamic tradition

- it is permitted to do this but not fard

6.  Before you consummate the marriage, give your wife something to eat or drink

- most women like chocolate

7. Make a duaa before consummating

8.  Have foreplay before consummating the marriage

- prepares her physical and emotionally

9.  All sensual positions are permissible as long as you enter your wife in the front of her private parts

- if a man went to bed with his wife and entered her from [behind] it was called

- ALL FOURS because she is on her knees and hands

The Prophet () said, "No one among you should have sex with his wife like animals; rather there should be a messenger between them." When asked about the messenger, he said, "It means kissing and talking."

- the Companions in Makka practiced this with their wives but not in Madinah

- a Sahabah tried to do this but she rejected the position because she was influenced by the practices in Madinah

Al-Baqarah 2|223|Your wives are a place of sowing of seed for you, so come to your place of cultivation however you wish and put forth [righteousness] for yourselves. And fear Allah and know that you will meet Him. And give good tidings to the believers.       

- your wife is a piece of land for you to CULTIVATE so cultivate however you want

- so all positions are permissible but the acrobatic sensual positions are makrooh

- only women who do yoga can do these positions

10.  Sodomy ... is this permissible?

-there is difference of opinion but Shaikh's scholars taught that it was not permitted

On the authority of Jaabir (RA) who said: “The Jews used to say that if a man entered his wife in the vagina but from behind, their child would be cross-eyed! Then Allaah revealed the verse: “Your wives are as a tilth unto you; so approach your tilth when or how ye will;” [Al-Baqarah 2:223]. 

The Prophet () said: “From the front or the back, as long as it is in the vagina”. [Al-Bukhari and Muslim]

- Shiites promote sodomy

- they use 2:223 as evidence

- the same ayah is used to refute the Shiites  because cultivation can only take place w/ vaginal intercourse.

The Prophet () said: "The one who has intercourse with a menstruating woman, or with a woman in her back passage, or who goes to a fortune-teller, has disbelieved in what was revealed to Muhammad." (Reported by al-Tirmidhi).

- Hadeeth conflict because Umar entered his wife in the [rear]

- but we need to research to see if this Hadith is Sahih or not

On the authority of Ibn 'Abbaas who said: "'Umar ibn Al-Khattaab came to the Prophet and said: 'O Messenger of Allaah, I am destroyed!' The Prophet asked: 'And what has destroyed you, O 'Umar?' 'Umar said: `I turned my mount around last night.' (An expression which means he has sexual intercourse with his wife penetrating the vagina while mounting her from the rear.) The Prophet gave him no answer and when the revelation came and the verse was revealed which says: "Your wives are as a tilth unto you; so approach your tilth when or how ye will;" [al-Baqarah 2:223] and the Prophet said: "From the front and from the back, just beware of her anus and her menses". [an-Nasaa'ee in "`Ishratun-Nisaa" with Hasan Isnaad, at-Tirmidhi and others].

- Umar entered her from the rear but does NOT say anal sex

11.  You are allowed to speak with your wife during intercourse

- add to # 10 that one of the top Ayatollahs outlawed anal sex

- the Hadith re: Umar is about all fours ... entering from behind / the rear

- this is because the anus wasn't created by Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ) for pleasure

- if a woman complains about her husband indulging in anal sex, the wali can annul the marriage

- what you say must remain between you and your wife

- there is fabricated hadeeth that says it's haram to speak during intercourse

12. You're permitted to take off your clothing

- Shariah law allows us to take off all your clothing

13.  If you practice polygamy, you can not go to bed w/ both wives simultaneously

- it is emotional abuse to make love to one wife in front of the other

- there are no threesomes in Islam

- you're not to look at private parts of anyone but your spouse

On the authority of 'Aa'ishah (radiallahu anha) who said: "I used to bathe with the Prophet from a single container of water which was placed between us such that our hands collided inside it. He used to race me such that I would say: `Leave some for me, leave some for me!' She added: `We were in a state of Janabah (i.e. the state of having slept together).'"[Al-Bukhari and Muslim].

14.  If man has trouble with erectile dysfunction, he's permitted to take tablets to help

- but if you're healthy, you're not permitted to take these tablets

15.  You're not permitted to expose bedroom secrets of each other

- even if you had a great time in bed and you're impressed so you're tempted to brag

- you're not permitted!

- this will cause friends to want to go to bed with your husband / wife

- some female Sahabahs was doing it, and they compared their sensual lives with each other

- the Rasool () asked about this and he said it's like two shaitaan

On the authority of Asmaa bint Yazid who narrated "that she was once in the presence of the Prophet () and there were both men and women sitting. The Prophet then said: "Perhaps a man might discuss what he does with his wife, or perhaps a woman might inform someone what she did with her husband?" The people were silent Then I said: "O, Yes! O Messenger of Allaah verily both the women and men do that." Then the Prophet said: "Do not do that. It is like a male shaitaan who meets a female shaitaan along the way, and has sex with her while the people look on!" [Ahmad: Hasan or Saheeh due to supports]

16.  Oral activities is something the Qur'an and Hadith keep silent on

- everything is halal except anal sensual activity

The basic ruling regarding the wife seeking pleasure of her husband's penis is that of permissibility, however, that which is feared is that this act may lead to possible oral intake of sperm or prostatic fluids. The Hanaabilah have indicated the permissibility of a wife kissing her husband's penis, Also, Asbagh from the Maalikiyyah has indicated the permissibility of a man kissing his wife's vagina as is mentioned in «Tafseer al-Qurtubee» [Volume 12, Page 231]

- Qurtabi is a Maliki scholar who lived in Spain

- Shaikh says he claims ignorance

- we didn't uncover anything from Shafi'i or Abu Hanifa

17. It's not permissible for woman to swallow the semen of her husband

- Neither can the man swallow his wife's discharge

18.  You're not permitted to play with the anus of each other

- do not play with yours or another's anus

19.  It's haram to use your tongue on the anus of your spouse

- Islamic Shariah says we're not to imitate the kuffaar

- we put a lid on perversion in society

20.  When you're in the bedroom, you're not permitted to take toys for sensual pleasure

- vibrators and dildo are haram because the compete with the man's manhood [penis]

- if a man is old and unable to satisfy his wife, he still cannot use sensual toys

21.  To blindfold your wife as a sensual game is permissible

- if the woman trusts the man, this is allowed

- some games involve blindfolding and fruit

- 4 1/4 grams of gold in charity ... should be given for WHAT REASON?

22.  You're not permitted to go to bed with wife when she is menstruating

- Atonement is 4 1/4 grams of gold in charity

23.  A woman who was menstruating and then it stops; she is not permitted to go to bed with husband until she makes ghusl

They question thee (O Muhammad) concerning menstruation. Say: It is an illness, so let women alone at such times and go not in unto them till they are cleansed. And when they have purified themselves, then go in unto them as Allah hath enjoined upon you. Truly Allah loveth those who turn unto Him, and loveth those who have a care for cleanness. (Al-Baqarah 2: 222)

A hadith narrated by 'Abdullaah ibn 'Abbaas from the Prophet () in relation to one who enters his wife while she is on her period as follows: "Let him give one dinar in charity, or one half dinar." [At-Tirmidhi, Abu Dawood, At-Tabarani and others: Saheeh].

Besides, he should expiate for this by giving one Dinar of gold or half a Dinar of gold in charity. A Dinar weight is 4.25 grams of gold. So he should either give one Dinar [or half a Dinar] of gold or its value in charity.

24.  if you went to bed with wife and you desired to have sex a 2nd time,

- you both need to make Istinjaa and if you make it with wudu,

- it is even better

25.  You're allowed to shower together as a couple, naked 

26.  You're permitted to have sensual relations in the shower

27.  A woman is allowed to masturbate her husband until he ejaculates

- the woman can do the same, but neither can use objects or toys

- he must use his left hand, also

- electric machines to do this are also haram

- Hanbalis do not permit it with toys

- Hanbalis do not permit vibrators

- Hanbalis do not permit it with toys (vibrators)

- they try to use these to compete with what Allah has created: so they are haraam

- vibrators are created for feminists

- these objects compete with Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ) creation

- these women think they do not need men

- they are lesbians and believe MEN ARE DAWGS

28.  During intercourse ... you're permitted to do birth control / coitus interruptus / ‘azl

- to pull out manhood (penis) before you ejaculate, you need her permission

- because you're interrupting her pleasure

- you need permission of wife but not concubine

Sahih Muslim Book 8, Number 3388: Jabir (Allah be pleased with him) reported: We used to practise ‘azl during the lifetime of Allah’s Messenger (). This (the news of this practise) reached Allah’s Apostle (), and he did not forbid us.

 

29.  Birth control is halal for a woman who is example:  wants to finish her education

- she doesn't do anything wrong; it's permitted

 

30.  Abortion is also halal in Islam

- if a woman wants to abort the baby BEFORE 6 WEEKS ... she can

- it is Hanbali fiqh

- Abu Hanifa or Imam Malik disagree

- But it must be before six weeks because the breath was not put into the child yet

31.  The morning-after tablet is permitted

- no one was killed so it's not haram

32.  Pills to grow a woman's breasts or a man's manhood, it is permitted

- you can buy these pills without a prescription in most countries

33.  As for 'pinning down your wife' - we do not say [rape] the wife.

- in Shariah, pinning down is only when you're wife someone haram for you

- so there is no 'pinning down' with your wife: sensual acts are permitted with her

- the greatest fantasy of a married woman is to be pinned down by their husbands

- please do it playfully

- both need to be in the mood for it

34.  You get so much barakah each time you go to bed with your wife!

- a man with a high libido gets more barakah than a man w/a low libido

- the man with multiple wives gets even more barakah

"A woman is not allowed to do voluntary fast without husband’s permission when he is present." Bulugh-al-maram

"....having sexual intercourse with your wife is a Sadaqah." They (the Companions) said: "O Messenger of Allah (), is there reward for him who satisfies his sexual passion among us?" He said: "Tell me, if he were to devote it to something forbidden, would it not be a sin on his part? Similarly, if he were to devote it to something lawful, he should have a reward." [Muslim]

35.  It is makrooh to have sensual acts during hurricane, storm, earthquake or tornado

36.  Haraam to abuse wife verbally or physically and then go to bed with her (have relations)

37. In Ramadan, you must wait for Athaan of Maghrib

Abu Bakr As Shatri (Short Talk in Arabic)

The Blessing of Month of Shaban and coming of Ramadan 

Ramadan Timetable (Kingcross Masjid)


 

Friday, January 30, 2026

Short Islamic Talk on Fasting and Virtues of Sha'ban [Mp3]

 

 

(Arabic Bayan)
Speech By Abu Bakr As Shatri and Translation by Imam Kingcross (Bangla) and Hafiz Mohammed Imran Khan (Imam kingcross) English 

Quran recitation and Dua By Imam Abu Bakr As Shatri [Mp3]

 

Surah Al Baqarah 2:284 to 286


Dua 

Rules of Fasting (Imsaak) [note]

 

  بِسْمِ اللَّـهِ الرَّحْمَـٰنِ الرَّحِيمِ

RULES OF FASTING


18th February 2026 - 01 Ramadan 1447 AH
 

يَـٰٓأَيُّهَا ٱلَّذِينَ ءَامَنُوا۟ كُتِبَ عَلَيْكُمُ ٱلصِّيَامُ كَمَا كُتِبَ عَلَى ٱلَّذِينَ مِن قَبْلِكُمْ لَعَلَّكُمْ تَتَّقُونَ ١٨٣

THE DEFINITION OF FASTING

- Fasting has both literal and technical meanings:

- Literal meaning Imsaak (Abstention)

- Technical meaning to abstain from food, drink, smoking, intercourse (between Fajr & Maghrib) to seek Allah's (سبحانه وتعالىٰ) pleasure.

- Therefore, those who fast to lose weight are making a grave mistake. 

- The purpose of fasting is to seek Allah's (سبحانه وتعالىٰ) Pleasure. 

- We fast in the holy month of Ramadan because the Holy Quran was revealed in Ramadan 

- We fast to thank Allah (سبحانه وتعالىٰ) for the Guidance He has bestowed upon us.

THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN SAUM AND SIYAAM

Saum means: The fast of Ramadan. It is a specific fast 

Siyaam means: the general fast performed outside of Ramadan. 

WHO ARE EXEMPTED FROM FASTING 

1. THE MADMAN 

Ali reported that Allah's Messenger () said, "The pen has been raised for three persons (meaning they are not held accountable for what they do): one who is sleeping until he gets up, a child until he reaches the age of puberty, and an insane person until he becomes sane." [Musnad Ahmad (1/154) No. 1327, Sunan Abu Dawud (4/140) No. 4402, Sunan Tirmidhi (4/32) No. 1423, Sunan Ibn Majah (3/198) No. 2041, al-Sunan al-Kubra al-Nasa'i (5/265) No. 5596, Mustadrak al-Haakim (2/67) No. 2350] 

- The madman cannot form an intention

- Thus, there is no ibadah, because there is no intention 

- Similarly, if you make salah without stating your intention, your salah is batil 

- This doesn’t mean uttering it but making the intention in your heart

Omar ibn al-Khattab (RA) said, 'I heard the Messenger of Allah (), say, "Actions only go by intentions. Everyone gets what they intend..." [Al-Bukhari (1) and Muslim (1907)]

2. THE CHILD 

 -The ulama say that you can’t force a child to fast before he reaches puberty

Ibn Qudaamah (rh) said: "The age of ten is more likely, because the Prophet () enjoined smacking children for not praying at this age, and regarding fasting as being like prayer is better, because they are close to one another, and because they are both physical actions that are pillars of Islam. But fasting is harder, so attention should be paid to when the child becomes able for it, because some may be able to pray who are not yet able to fast." [Al-Mughni (3/161)]

If he is young and has not yet reached puberty, he is not obliged to fast, but if he is able to do it without hardship, then he should be told to do so. The Sahaabah (may Allaah be pleased with them) used to make their children fast, and if the younger ones cried they would give them toys to distract them. But if it is proven that it is harmful to him, then he should be stopped from fasting. If Allaah has forbidden us to give youngsters their wealth if there is the fear that they may abuse it, then it is more appropriate that they be stopped from doing something if there is the fear of physical harm. But that should not be done by force, because that is not appropriate in raising children. [End quote. Majmoo’ Fataawa al-Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen, 19/83]

- If you ask the scholars what age a child should fast, most will say age 10: 

Amr ibn Shu’ayb from his father that his grandfather said: The Messenger of Allah () said: “Teach your children to pray when they are seven years old, and smack them if they do not pray when they are ten years old, and separate them in their beds.” [Sunan Abu Dawud (1/133) No. 495 and Musnad Ahmad (2/180) No. 6689]

- Their Qiyaas is if we are able to beat our children regarding prayer then they should fast too. 

- Others say age 12:

- Uthaymeen said some children are stronger than others 

- So, some should fast at 10 and others at 12 

3. THE ELDERLY 

- The elderly do not fast 

- Instead, they feed poor people 

- This cost roughly $150 in charity to the poor for the whole of Ramadan

- You should give it to the Muslims and not to the kuffaar  

- Because feeding the kuffaar is the responsibility of the kafir Government. 

 

4. THE SICK 

There are two types of sick people:

1) Temporarily sick 

2) Terminally sick 

- Those who are temporarily sick should not fast, but must make up the missed days after Ramadan.

- The terminally ill (no hope of getting better - like someone suffering from diabetes) should give away $150 

- It is wrong to fast when you are sick because Allah (سبحانه وتعالىٰ) said not to kill yourself in Nisa 29:

And do not kill yourselves (nor kill one another). Surely, Allah is Most Merciful to you. (Nisa 4:29) 

'Ata' said, "One should break the fast on account of illness, whatever it may be, as Allah has said (in Al-Baqarah: 184)." And Hasan and Ibrahim said, "Concerning the woman who gives suck and the one with child, when they fear about themselves or their child, they should break the fast, then fast on other days. And as to the very old man when he cannot bear fasting. Anas, after he became old, fed one who was needy, for a year or two daily with bread and meat, and broke the fast." [Sahih Bukhari (6/25)]

5. THE PREGNANT WOMAN 

- She should not fast if she finds it difficult 

- She falls into the category of those who are, 'terminally ill'

- This makes for an interesting case study, how we take the opinion of the sahabah (radiyallahu ‘anhum) over our scholars (RH)

- According to all four of the great imams, a pregnant lady must make up the days she missed her fasts in Ramadan due to her pregnancy 

- This, however, is the wrong opinion 

- The correct opinion is that of Ali, ibn Abbas and Ibn Omar (radiyallahu ‘anhum)

- They, the sahabah (radiyallahu ‘anhum), say the pregnant woman does not have to make up the days 

That they have to feed the poor only, and do not have to make up the fasts. Among the Sahabah, this was the view of Abdullah Ibn Abbas (RA). Ibn Qudamah also narrated this in al-Mughni (3/150) from Ibn Omar (RA). Abu Dawood (231 narrated from Ibn Abbas (RA) and Ali (RA) that this phrase; 'those who can fast with difficulty [Surah al-Baqarah (2):184] was a concession granted to old men and old women who find it difficult to fast, allowing them not to fast and to feed one poor person for each day instead, and the same for pregnant and breastfeeding women if they are afraid. Abu Dawood said, i.e., for their children they may not fast and may feed (the poor) instead.' Al-Nawawi said, 'its isnad is hasan.' This was also narrated by al-Bazzar who added at the end, 'Ibn Abbas used to say to a concubine of his who was pregnant: You are like one who cannot fast, so you have to pay the Fidya but you do not have to make up the fasts. [Al-Daraqutni classed its isnad as saheeh, as stated by al-Hafiz in al-Talkhees]

- Instead, they should give away in charity. 

6. THE BREASTFEEDING MOTHER 

- Her hukum (ruling) is like that of the pregnant woman 

- If breastfeeding the baby makes it too difficult to fast, she can feed the poor or give charity instead 

- Some Muslimah miss multiple Ramadan because of pregnancy or breastfeeding:

- How can you tell a Muslim woman to make up these days, it's too difficult 

…..Allāh burdens not a person beyond his scope. (Baqarah: 286)

7. THE TRAVELLER 

- No pressure should be put on the traveller to fast

Aysha (RA) narrated: Hamza bin 'Amr Al-Aslami asked the Prophet (), "Should I fast while traveling?" The Prophet replied, "You may fast if you wish, and you may not fast if you wish." [Al-Bukhari (1943) and Muslim (1121)]

Ibn Abbas (Allah be pleased with him) reported: Do not condemn one who observes fast, or one who does not observe (in a journey) for the Messenger of Allah () observed fast in a journey or he did not observe it (too).   (Muslim, Book 35, # 2471)

Abu Sa'id al-Khudri (Allah be pleased with him) reported: We went out on an expedition with the Messenger of Allah () during Ramadan. Some of us observed the fast and some of us broke it. Neither the observer of the fast had any grudge against one who broke it, nor the breaker of the fast had any grudge against one who had fasted They knew that he who had strength enough (to bear its rigour) fasted and that was good, and they also found that he who felt weakness (and could not bear the burden) broke it, and that was also good.  (Muslim, Book 35, # 2480)

Abu Nadra reported Abu Sa'id al.Khudri and Jabir b. Abdullah as saying: We travelled with the Messenger of Allah (). The observer of the fast observed it, and the breaker of the fast broke it, but none of them found fault with each other.  (Muslim, Book 35, # 2481)

8. THE MUJAHEDEEN 

- The mujahedeen fall in the same category as the traveller 

Abu Sa'eed al-Khudri (RA) said: 'We travelled with the Messenger of Allah () to Makkah (meaning at the Conquest of Makkah) and we were fasting. We stopped to camp and the Messenger of Allah () said: “You are approaching your enemy and breaking the fast will make you stronger.” This was a concession, and some of us continued to fast and some of us broke our fast. Then we stopped to camp again, and he said, “You are going to meet your enemy in the morning, and breaking the fast will make you stronger, so break your fast.” So, we had no choice but to break our fast' [Sahih Muslim (2/789) No. 1120]

9. WOMEN ON MENSES 

 -She has to make up the days she missed after Ramadan 

Mu'adha narrated: I asked 'A'isha: What is the reason that a menstruating woman completes the fasts (that she abandons during her monthly course). But she does not complete the prayers? She ('A'isha) said: Are you a Haruriya? I said: I am not a Haruriya, but I simply want to inquire. She said: We passed through this (period of menstruation), and we were ordered to complete the fasts, but were not ordered to complete the prayers. [Sahih Muslim (1/265) No. 335]

- Haruriya means khawaarij 

10. A WOMAN BLEEDING AFTER CHILDBIRTH 

- Her hukm is like that of the woman on her menses.

- However she is normally breast feeding during this period

- So, the exception for breast-feeding women would apply if that was the case.

11. PEOPLE WITH DIFFICULT JOBS 

- Bricklayers or truck drivers are examples 

- Because Allah Said: in Surah Baqarah: 185 

Allah intends for you ease, and He does not want to make things difficult for you.  (Baqarah: 185)

12. PEOPLE WHO FIND THE FAST UNBEARABLE 

- Meaning you normally fast but you find it strangely unbearable to fast one day or so

- You are allowed to break your fast but you have to make up the day(s) you missed 

The evidence for this is in Maidah Verse 6:

Allah does not want to place you in difficulty, but He wants to purify you, and to complete His Favour on you that you may be thankful. (Ma'idah: 6)

If Fasting Causes Fainting and Madness he was asked about a man who, whenever he wants to fast, he faints, and speaks incomprehensibly. He may continue for days in this state. Some people accuse him of madness, although this is not apparent from him?

He (Sheikh ul Islam) answered:

Praise be to Allah. If fasting causes such illness for him, he is permitted to break his fast and make it up. If this happens whenever he fasts, then he is unable to fast. Hence he is required to feed a poor person for everyday he breaks the fast. And Allah knows best. (Ibn Taymiyyah, ‘The Nature of Fasting’ (Dar us Salam: Riyadh, 2000) page 79)

STARTING YOUR FAST IN A STATE OF JANAAB OR MENSES 

Example: The cessation of menses

- Is a woman allowed to start her fast before making ghusl at the end of her menses? 

- Yes, janaaba doesn't stop the fast 

Example she becomes pure 2 or 3 hours before fajr

- A man can also start his fast in a state of janaaba

- But he must make ghusl before fajr in order for his fast to be valid 

Aysha and Umm Salama (RA) narrated: "The Prophet () used to get up at dawn while in a state of Janaba (sexual impurity). Then, he would take a bath and fast." [Al-Bukhari (1926) and Muslim (1109)]

THE DURATION OF FASTING 

Two adhans are important in Ramadan:

- The adhan of Fajr and the adhan of Maghrib 

- The adhan of Fajr means one must stop eating

- The adhan of Maghrib means one must rush to break the fast 

 -The sunnah is to rush to break the fast: 

Sahl ibn Sad reported that Allah's Messenger () said, "The people will remain on the right path as long as they hasten the breaking of the fast." [Al-Bukhari (1957) and Muslim (109]

How Fast is the Fast to be Broken?

He was asked: about the sunset: "Is it permissible for the fasting person to break his fast as soon as the sun sets?"

He (Sheikh ul Islam) answered:

If the whole disc of the sun disappears, the fasting person permitted to break his fast, it does not matter if the red colour still remains in the horizon.

When the whole disc disappears, darkness appears from the east. The Prophet () said: “When the night comes from here, and the day ends up there, and the sun has set, indeed the fast is to be broken.” (Bukhari and Muslim)  (Ibn Taymiyyah, ‘The Nature of Fasting’ (Dar us Salam: Riyadh, 2000) pg 77-8)

KISSING WHILE FASTING IN RAMADAN

- This doesn't break the fast 

- Not even French kissing:

Narrated Aysha, Ummul Mu'minin: The Prophet () used to kiss her and suck her tongue when he was fasting. [Abu Dawud, 2386]

Ibn Qudaamah (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: With regard to swallowing the saliva of someone else, this invalidates the fast, because he is swallowing something that did not come from his own mouth, so it is likened to swallowing something else. If it is said that ‘Aa’ishah narrated that the Prophet () used to kiss her when he was fasting and suck her tongue (narrated by Abu Dawood, 2386),

our response is that it was narrated from Abu Dawood that he said this isnaad is not saheeh. Among those who also classed the additional phrase “and suck her tongue” as weak (da’eef) is al-Albaani in Da’eef Sunan Abi Dawood. Ibn Qudaamah mentioned two ways of understanding the hadeeth if we assume that it is saheeh: 1 – That the two matters are not connected. He said: It may be that he used to kiss her when fasting and suck her tongue at other times. 2 – The hadeeth does not refer to swallowing saliva at all. He said: It may be that he sucked it (her tongue) but did not swallow the saliva, because the wetness on her tongue was not transferred to his mouth. [Al-Mughni, 3/17] 

 -Albani declared this as a weak Hadith. 

- Therefore, kissing during fasting maybe makrooh

SEXUAL INTERCOURSE DURING RAMADAN 

- This is halal after Maghrib 

- But intercourse with your wife before maghrib is a grave sin in Islam

Narrated By Abu Huraira: While we were sitting with the Prophet , a man came and said, "O Allah's Apostle! I have been ruined." Allah's Apostle asked what the matter with him was. He replied "I had sexual intercourse with my wife while I was fasting." Allah's Apostle asked him, "Can you afford to manumit a slave?" He replied in the negative. Allah's Apostle asked him, "Can you fast for two successive months?" He replied in the negative. The Prophet asked him, "Can you afford to feed sixty poor persons?" He replied in the negative. The Prophet kept silent and while we were in that state, a big basket full of dates was brought to the Prophet. He asked, "Where is the questioner?" He replied, "I (am here)." The Prophet said (to him), "Take this (basket of dates) and give it in charity." The man said, "Should I give it to a person poorer than I? By Allah; there is no family between it's (i.e. Medina's) two mountains who are poorer than I." The Prophet smiled until his pre-molar teeth became visible and then said, 'Feed your family with it." [Al-Bukhari (1936) and Muslim (1111)]

- The man who went to bed with his wife before Maghrib has to pay an atonement to free a slave/too fast two months/to feed 60 poor people

- Just as it is mentioned in the above Hadith

- It is not compulsory for the wife to pay any atonement unless she initiated the intercourse

- If she initiated it, both have to pay

- But if the husband initiated it, he alone has to pay the atonement

- If the couple is poor and cannot afford the atonement, then nothing is required of them

THIS IS THE MERCY OF ISLAM!!!

MASTURBATION DURING RAMADAN

 -If a person masturbates, and ejaculates, before Maghrib he has broken the fast.

- He has to make up one day of Ramadan because he masturbated one day of Ramadan.

- If he should masturbate 7 days of Ramadan, and ejaculates all 7 occasions, he has to make up 7 days because he broke his fast 7 times.

- This ruling applies if he masturbates before Maghrib.

- If he masturbates after Maghrib, he does not have to make up the day.

EATING OR DRINKING IN RAMADAN DUE TO FORGETFULNESS

- If a person should mistakenly eat or drink during Ramadan, his fast is still valid.

Abu Huraira reported that the Prophet () said, “If anyone forgets and eats or drinks (by accident while he is fasting), he should complete his fast, for it is Allah who has fed him and given him drink.” [Al-Bukhari (6669) and Muslim (1155)]

Ibn 'Abbas (RA) the Messenger of Allah () said: "Verily Allah has pardoned [or been lenient with] for me my Ummah: their mistakes, their forgetfulness, and that which they have been forced to do under duress." [Sunan Ibn Majah (3/200) No. 2045, al-Mu'jam al-Kabir al-Tabarani (11/133) No. 11274, al-Sunan al-Kubra al-Bayhaqi (7/584) No. 15094, Sunan al-Daraqutni (5/300) No. 4351]

- If a person holds a gun at you and orders you to break your fast, this is called duress

 -So you are not accountable for breaking your fast in this case

- If a new Muslim doesn't know you don't drink water during the fast and drinks, this is called a mistake

- For example, Christians drink during fasting and he coming from Christianity may think it’s the same in Islam

THOSE WHO OVERSLEPT AND MISSED SUHUR

- You have to fast without suhur, it may be difficult, but you have to

 -You should set your alarm to wake you up

Anas ibn Malik (RA) narrated the Prophet () said: “Eat sahoor, for in sahoor there is blessing.” [Al-Bukhari (1923) and Muslim (1095)]

THE INTENTION FOR FASTING

- The intention for fasting is Fard

- If you fast without intention, your fast is batil

Hafsah (RA) reported the Prophet () as saying, “He, who has not formed an intention (to fast) before dawn, has not fasted”. [Sunan Tirmidhi (3/10 No. 730, Sunan Abu Dawud (2/329) No. 2454, Sunan al-Nasa'i (4/196) No. 2331, Sunan Ibn Majah (2/59 No. 1700, Sunan al-Darime (2/12) No. 1698, Musnad Ahmad (6/287) No. 26500]

- The intention must be made before the Fajr adhan

 -That means you need 30 intentions for the 30 days of Ramadan

Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah said: “Whoever thinks in his heart that he will fast tomorrow has formed the intention.” [Majmu' al-Fatawa al-Kubra (5/375)]

- Just to think in your heart is intention

- that is enough for you to have your fast accepted

- If the fast is sunnah, you have until zuhr to make your intention:

Aysha (RA) narrated the Prophet () came to visit me one day and asked, “Do you have anything (to eat)?” I said, “No.” He said, “Then I am fasting.” Then he came to me another day and I said, “I had been given a present of some Hais (a mixture of dates and ghee). He said, “Show it to me, for I had began the day fasting.” Then he ate. [Sahih Muslim (2/809) No. 1154]

- Because of this Hadith, the scholars of Fiqh said when the Prophet () is talking about the intention for fast before Fajr, he () was talking about saum; the fasts in Ramadhan

WHAT BREAKS THE FAST

1. To eat on purpose

2. To drink on purpose

3. To smoke on purpose

4. To vomit on purpose (induced vomiting):

Abu Huraira (RA) narrated the Messenger of Allah () said, “Whoever vomits involuntarily does not have to make up the fast, but whoever vomits deliberately let him make up the fast.” [Sunan Tirmidhi (3/9 No. 720, Sunan Abu Dawud (2/310) No. 2380, Sunan Ibn Majah (2/581) No. 1676, Musnad Ahmad (2/49 No. 10468, Sunan al-Daraqutni (3/155) No. 2276]

5. Menses

- If your menses start before maghrib, your fast is broken.

- You have to make up that day

6. Nifaas

 -Nifaas means Bleeding after childbirth

- Nifaas carries the same hukm as menses

- You have to make up the days you missed

7. Intercourse on purpose

 -The man who slept with his wife, forgetting it was Ramadan, does not have to make it up

8. To masturbate before Maghrib

9. Drips in hospitals used to replace food (food supplements)

10. Apostasy

THINGS THAT DO NOT BREAK THE FAST

1. To eat or drink out of forgetfulness

2. To vomit unintentionally

3. To brush your teeth with toothpaste

4. To swallow your own saliva, smoke in the kitchen or dust

- However, if you kiss your wife and swallow her saliva, your fast is broken

5. Medicinal Injections

6. Asthmatic Pumps

7. Using ear Drops, Eye Drops, Kohl, Mascara:

Anas ibn Malik (RA) narrated that a man came to the Prophet () and complained about his eyes troubling him. He said, “Shall I apply kohl (collegiums) while I am fasting?” He said, “Yes!" [Sunan Tirmidhi (3/105) No. 726]

8. Having a wet dream while fasting

9. Thinking about breaking the fast

10. Doing a blood test

11. Doing Hijaama (cupping):

- This used break the fast in the early days of Islam

- But this was later abrogated and so it doesn’t break the fast now

Ibn Abbas (RA) reported that Allah's Messenger had himself cupped when he was in the state of ihram. [Al-Bukhari (193 and Muslim (1202). It is added in a variant of al-Bukhari, "and was fasting."]

Thawban narrated the Prophet () said: “The cupper and the one for whom cupping is done have both invalidated their fast.” [Sunan Abu Dawud (2/30 No. 2367, Sunan Ibn Majah (2/584) No. 1680, Sunan al-Darime (2/25) No. 1730, Musnad Ahmad (5/282) No. 22484]

Anas (RAA) narrated, 'The first time cupping was disliked for the one who is fasting was when Ja'far bin Abi Talib had himself cupped while fasting and the Messenger of Allah () came across him and said, "Those two have broken their fast (meaning Ja'far and the man who was cupping him)." But later on, the Prophet () allowed cupping for the one who is fasting. Anas used to have himself cupped while he was fasting. [Related by Ad-Daraqutni, who regarded it as a strong hadith]

12. Water slipping down your throat accidentally when making wudu

WHEN IS IT HARAM TO FAST

1. On a doubtful day

'Ammar bin Yasir (RA) reported: "He who observes the fast on a doubtful day, has in fact disobeyed Abul-Qasim." [Sunan Abu Dawud (2/300) No. 2334, Sunan Tirmidhi (3/70) No. 686, Sunan al-Nasa'i (4/153) No. 2188, Sunan Ibn Majah (2/561) No. 1645, Sunan al-Darime (2/5) No. 1682]

2. The 10TH, 11TH, 12TH and 13TH of Dhul Hijjah

- These are the four days of Eid ul Adha

- It is Haram to fast on Eid day:

Abu Sa'eed al-Khudri (RA) narrated the Prophet () forbade fasting on the day of (Eid) al-Fitr and al-Nahr (the day of sacrifice, i.e., Eid al-Adha). [Al-Bukhari (1991) and Muslim (113]

NubAysha al-Hudhali narrated the Prophet () said: “The days of al-Tashreeq are days of eating, drinking and remembering Allah.” [Sahih Muslim (2/800) No. 1141]

- This Eid is called Eid Kabir because Eid ul Adha is four days and kabir means big

3. The 1st of Shawwal

- The first of Shawwal is called Eid ul Fitr

- It is Haram to fast on Eid day

SHOULD WE FOLLOW THE MOON OF MAKKAH OR LOCAL SIGHTING

Abu Huraira (RA) reported: The Messenger of Allah () said, "Observe Saum (fast) on sighting the crescent and terminate it on sighting it (the new moon), but if the sky is cloudy before you, then complete the number (thirty days) of the month." [Al-Bukhari (1909) and Muslim (1081)] 

- The scholars differ on this, and the correct opinion is that you should follow the moon of Makkah

- But those who follow the local sighting follow the hadith of Muawiya (radiyallahu ‘anhu):

Kuraib narrated that Umm Al-Fadl sent him to Muawiyah in Ash-Sham. He said: "I came to Ash-Sham. He said: "I came to Ash-Sham and complete her errand. Then the new crescent of Ramadan was sighted while I was in Ash-Sham. I saw the new crescent on the night of Friday, then I came to Al-Madinah at the end of the month. 'Abdullah bin 'Abbas asked me about the sighting of the moon and said: ' When did you see it?' I said: 'We saw it on the night of Friday.' He said; 'You saw it on the ninth of Friday?' I said: 'Yes, and the people saw it and started fasting, and so did Muawiyah. He said: 'But we saw it on the night of Saturday, so we will continue fasting until we have completed thirty days or we see it.' I said: 'Will you not be content with the sighting of Muawiyah and his companions? He said; 'No; this is what the Messenger of Allah enjoined upon us." [Sunan al-Nasa'i]

- It is better to follow the moon of Makkah to unite the Ummah

- This is what my teachers told me

SHOULD WE PRAY 8 OR 20 RAKAH FOR TARAWEEH

- The ulema have decided that if you pray 8 you follow the sunnah of the Prophet ()

- If you pray 20 you follow the Sunnah of Omar (radiyallahu ‘anhu)

- Both are correct

- You can do 8 or 20 - the choice is yours

"Pray as you have seen me praying..." [Sahih Bukhari, Vol 1, Book 11, Hadith #604]

- The Madkhali say you have to do 8 quoting the hadith above

- But they are not being sincere

Shaykh Ibn 'Uthaymeen (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: Here we say that we should not go to extremes or be negligent. Some people go to extremes in adhering to the number mentioned in the Sunnah, and say that it is not permissible to do more than the number mentioned in the Sunnah, and they aggressively denounce those who do more than that, saying that they are sinners.

The four great Imams prayed 20. 
Are they doing bidah? No!

This is undoubtedly wrong. How can they be sinners, when the Prophet (), upon being asked about night prayers, said that they are to be done two by two, and he did not specify any particular number? Of course, the one who asked him about the night prayer did not know the number, because if he did not know how to do it, it is even more likely that he did not know the number. And he was not one of those who served the Prophet () so that we might say that he knew what happened inside his house. Since the Prophet () told him how to do it but did not say how many times, it may be understood that the matter is broad in scope, and that a person may pray one hundred rak'ahs then pray Witr with one rak'ah.With regard to the words of the Prophet (), “Pray as you have seen me praying”, this does not apply in absolute terms even for these people. Hence, they do not say that a person should pray Witr with five rak'ahs sometimes and with seven rak'ahs sometimes and with nine rak'ahs sometimes. If we understand it in absolute terms, then we would have to pray Witr with five rak'ahs sometimes and with seven rak'ahs sometimes and with nine rak'ahs sometimes. But what is meant by the hadeeth is pray as you have seen me praying with regard to how to pray not how many rak'ahs, unless there is a text to state what the number is. Whatever the case, a person should not be strict with people with regard to a matter that is broad in scope. We have even seen some brothers who are strict on this matter accusing the imams who pray more than eleven rak'ahs of following bid'ah, and they leave the mosque, thus missing out on the reward of which the Messenger of Allaah () said: “Whoever stands with the imam until he finishes (the prayer), the reward of qiyaam al-layl will be recorded for him.” (Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, 806; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Tirmidhi, 646).

Some of them even sit down after completing ten rak'ahs, thus breaking up the rows of worshippers by sitting there, and sometimes they start talking and disturb the people who are praying. We have no doubt that their intentions are good and they are doing their best to come to the right conclusion, but that does not mean that they are correct. The other group does the opposite.

They sternly denounce those who pray only eleven rak'ahs and say that they have gone against scholarly consensus. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): “And whoever contradicts and opposes the Messenger (Muhammad) after the right path has been shown clearly to him, and follows other than the believers' way, We shall keep him in the path he has chosen and burn him in Hell -- what an evil destination!”[al-Nisa' 4:115] All the generations who came before you only knew the number as twenty-three rak'ahs, and they denounce anyone who says anything different. [Al-Sharh al-Mumti', 4/73-75]

- The hukm for salat ul taraweeh is that it is sunnah mu’akkada

- They say this because of the following hadith:

An-Nadr bin Shaiban said: "I said to Abu Salamah bin 'Abdur-Rahman: 'Tell me of something that you heard from your father, that he heard from the Messenger of Allah, with no one in between your father and Messenger of Allah concerning the month of Ramadan. He said: 'Yes; my father said: The Messenger of Allah () said: Allah, may He be blessed and exalted, enjoined the fast of Ramadan upon you, and I have made it Sunnah for you to spend its nights in prayer. Whoever fasts it and spends its nights in prayer out of faith and in the hope of reward, he will emerge from his sins as on the day his mother bore him."' [Sunan al-Nasa'i (4/1588) No. 2210, Sunan Ibn Majah (2/355) No. 1328, Musnad Ahmad (1/191) No. 1660] (Daeef)

WHEN IS IT MAKRUH TO FAST

1. To single out Friday to fast - because Friday is the Eid of the week

2. To single out a Saturday or Sunday to fast

- because it is the day of the Jews and the Christians

3. A woman to fast Sunnah without the permission of her husband

- because you deny him his sexual needs:

Abu Huraira (RA) narrated the Prophet () said: "It is not lawful for a woman to fast (Nawafil) when her husband is present except with his permission; and she should not allow anyone to enter his house except with his permission; and if she spends of his wealth (on charitable purposes) without being ordered by him, he will get half of the reward." [Al-Bukhari (5195) and Muslim (1026)]

THE BEST DAYS TO FAST

1. Mondays and Thursdays:

It was narrated that Aysha (RA) said: "The Prophet () was keen to fast on Mondays and Thursdays." [Sunan Tirmidhi (3/121) No. 745, Sunan Ibn Majah (2/627) No. 1739, Musnad Ahmad (6/106) No. 24792, al-Sunan al-Kubra al-Nasa'i (3/122) No. 2508]

Abu Huraira (RA) that the Messenger of Allah () said: “Deeds are shown (to Allah) on Mondays and Thursdays, and I like my deeds to be shown when I am fasting.” [Sunan Tirmidhi (3/122) No. 747]

2. The day of Arafah - 9th of Dhul Hijjah

Abu Qatada narrated the Messenger of Allah () was asked about fasting the Day of 'Ashura' and said, "It expiates the past year." [Sahih Muslim (2/819) No. 1162 and Musnad Ahmad (5/296) No. 22590]

Al-Nawawi (rh) said: “Fasting the day of 'Arafaah expiates for all minor sins, in other words this brings forgiveness for all sins except for major sins.”

3. The six (6) days of Shawaal

Abu Ayub narrated that: the Messenger of Allah () said: "Whoever fasts Ramadan, then follows it with six from Shawwal, then that is (equal in reward) to fasting every day." [Tirmidhi]

4. The 10th Day of Muharram

- 10th Muharram means Yaum Ashura

Abu Qatada narrated the Messenger of Allah () was asked about fasting the Day of 'Ashura' and said, "It expiates the past year." [Sahih Muslim (2/819) No. 1162 and Musnad Ahmad (5/296) No. 22590]

Ibn Abbas said, "When the Messenger of Allah () came to Al-Madinah, he found the Jews fasting the day of `Ashura'. Therefore, he asked them about it and they said, `This is the day that Allah gave Musa victory over Fir`awn.' Then, the Prophet () said, 'We have more right to Musa (than them), so fast it.'" [al-Bukhari (3943) and Muslim (1130)]

- Allah (سبحانه وتعالىٰ) Saved Musa (‘alayhi salatu wa salam) from the Pharoah on the 10th of Muharram

- Muslims should also fast on the 9th or 11th in order not to be like the Jews

5. Fast of David (‘alayhi salatu wa salam)

 -This is to fast one day and skip one day:

I said: "I am capable of doing more than this, O Messenger of Allah." Thereupon he said: "Fast one day and do not fast for the next two days." I said: "Messenger of Allah (), I have the strength to do more than that." The Holy Prophet (), said: "Fast one day and break on the other day. That is known as the fasting of Dawud (AS) and that is the best fasting." I said: "I am capable of doing more than this." Thereupon the Messenger of Allah (SAW) said: "There is nothing better than this." [Al-Bukhari (3418) and Muslim (1159)]

Abdullah bin Amr bin al-'As (RA) narrated the Messenger of Allah () was informed that I have said: "By Allah, I will fast all the days and pray all the nights as long as I live." On that, the Messenger of Allah asked me. "Are you the one who says: 'I will fast all the days and pray all the nights as long as I live?? ?' “I said, "Yes, I have said it." He said, "You cannot do that. So fast (sometimes) and do not fast (sometimes). Pray and sleep. Fast for three days a month, for the reward of a good deed is multiplied by ten time, and so the fasting of three days a month equals the fasting of a year." I said: "I am capable of doing more than this, O Messenger of Allah." Thereupon he said: "Fast one day and do not fast for the next two days." I said: "Messenger of Allah, I have the strength to do more than that." The Holy Prophet (), said: "Fast one day and break on the other day. That is known as the fasting of Dawud (AS) and that is the best fasting." I said: "I am capable of doing more than this." Thereupon the Messenger of Allah () said: "There is nothing better than this." [Al-Bukhari (341 and Muslim (1159)]

- Even though it is makruh to fast on a Friday or Saturday

- It is ok to fast on these days if you are fasting the fast of David

- And it falls on these days

WHEN DOES FASTING BECOME FARD OUTSIDE OF RAMADAN

1. If you make a promise to Allah (سبحانه وتعالىٰ) - an oath

Example you promise to fast if Allah (سبحانه وتعالىٰ) grants you success in your exams and He did.

2. If you break your wallahi

Allah will not punish you for what is unintentional in your oaths, but He will punish you for your deliberate oaths; for its expiation (a deliberate oath) feed ten Masakin (poor persons), on a scale of the average of that with which you feed your own families; or clothe them; or manumit a slave. But whosoever cannot afford (that), then he should fast for three days. That is the expiation for the oaths when you have sworn. And protect your oaths (i.e. do not swear much). Thus Allah make clear to you His Ayat (proofs, evidences, verses, lessons, signs, revelations, etc.) that you may be grateful. (Ma'idah: 89)

3. Fasting on behalf of a dead relative

Aysha (RA) narrated the Prophet () said, “Whoever dies while some fast is due from him (which is unfulfilled), and his heir must fast on his behalf.” [Al-Bukhari (1952) and Muslim (1147)]

Narrated Ibn Abbas: A man came to the Prophet () said, 'O Allah's Apostle! My mother died and she ought to have fasted one month (for her missed Ramadan). Shall I fast on her behalf?' The Prophet replied in the affirmative and said, 'Allah's debts have more right to be paid.' In another narration a woman is reported to have said, 'My sister died...'

Narrated Ibn 'Abbas: A woman said to the Prophet 'My mother died and she had vowed to fast but she didn't fast.' In another narration Ibn 'Abbas is reported to have said, 'A woman said to the Prophet, 'My mother died while she ought to have fasted for fifteen days.'  (Sahih Bukhari: (3 31), Hadith 174)

4. When you violate the ihram

- You have to fast 10 days if you violate the ihram

THOSE WHOSE FAST ARE REJECTED

1. Muslims who fast but do not pray

Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen was asked in Fataawa al-Siyaam (p. 87) about the ruling on the fasting of one who does not pray.

He replied: The fast of one who does not pray is not valid and is not accepted, because the one who does not pray is a kaafir and an apostate, because Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): “But if they repent [by rejecting Shirk (polytheism) and accept Islamic Monotheism], perform As-Salaah (Iqaamat-as-Salaah) and give Zakaah, then they are your brethren in religion” [al-Tawbah 9:11]

2. The fast of a kaafir

As for those who disbelieve, their deeds are like a mirage in a desert. The thirsty one thinks it to be water, until he comes up to it, he finds it to be nothing, but he finds Allah with him, Who will pay him his due (Hell). And Allah is Swift in taking account. (Nur: 24:39)

3. Munafiq

Verily, the hyprocrites will be in the lowest depths (grade) of the Fire; no helper will you find for them. (Nisa: 4:145)

4. The Zindeeq (Zindeeq means makes up his own religion)

And We shall turn to whatever deeds they (disbelievers, polytheists, sinners, etc.) did, and We shall make such deeds as scattered floating particles of dust. (Furqan: 24:23)

- His pious deeds are rejected

4. Murtad (The apostate)

And whosoever of you turns back from his religion and dies as a disbeliever, then his deeds will be lost in this life and in the Hereafter, and they will be the dwellers of the Fire. They will abide therein forever." (Baqarah: 2:217)

5. Mushrik

And indeed it has been revealed to you (O Muhammad ), as it was to those (Allah's Messengers) before you: "If you join others in worship with Allah, (then) surely (all) your deeds will be in vain, and you will certainly be among the losers." (Zumar: 39:65)

- The Mushriks are: the Goofy Sufi, the Barailvis and the Shiites.

 -The ‘goofy Sufis’ are the extreme Sufi who pray to the inhabitants of the grave and they believe in wahdat ul wujood (union, unity of being)

 -If you are living in a zone where the timetable is abnormal, go by the timetable of Makkah

- Anything over 17 hours is abnormal

- You are allowed to fast with the timetable of Makkah

- To be fasting for 20 hours is making life too difficult

- In such cases you are allowed to fast with the timetable of Makkah 

Allah does not want to place you in difficulty, but He wants to purify you, and to complete His Favour on you that you may be thankful.

(Ma'idah: 5:6)

 

QUESTION 1:

YOU SAID A PERSON HAS UNTIL DHUHR TO MAKE HIS INTENTION TO FAST. NOW THAT IS ASSUMING THAT HE DIDN’T EAT PRIOR TO HIS INTENTION RIGHT? AND ALSO, THERE IS A HADITH THAT SAYS THAT ANYONE WHO PRACTICES THE 5 PILLARS OF ISLAM AND NOTHING MORE OR LESS WILL GO TO PARADISE?

ANSWER 1:

- You have until Dhur to make intention for Sunnah fasting

- But you should not have eaten since after fajr

- During Ramadan, you must make your intention to fast before Fajr.

- Because you forgot the number days you promised, fast three days.

- The Prophet () mentioned the 5 pillars of Islam but it doesn't mean Islam has only 5 pillars

 -To look after your parents when they become old; to fight in jihad etc

- These are also pillars of Islam

QUESTION 2:

I HEARD AN IMAM SAYING THAT IF YOU USE TOOTHPASTE OR GOGGLE WATER IN YOUR THROAT, BREAKS YOUR FAST. CAN YOU EXPLAIN?

ANSWER 2:

- The Imam is wrong

- Using toothpaste doesn’t break your fast

- Your fast is only broken if you let the water pass through your throat intentionally

Sheikh ul Islam, ibn Taymiyyah (RH) states, ‘.. If the texts have not mentioned a prohibition of this, then reason leads one to know that this falls under the same category as drinking, there is no distinction between the two cases except for the means by which the water enters the mouth, and that is not relevant because the mere entrance of water in the mouth does not break the fast. So it does not break the fast nor does it fall under the category of something that does due to the absence of the results in question. Rather, it is a means that leads to breaking the fast.’ (Ibn Taymiyyah, ‘The Nature of Fasting’ (Dar us Salam: Riyadh, 2000) pg 37-8)

QUESTION 3:

WHY IS IT THAT A MUSLIM FASTS ON THE 10 OF MUHARRAM OR ASHURA, AND THE SHIITES CRACK THEIR SKULL OPEN IN THE NAME OF HUSSEIN (RADIYALLAHU ‘ANHU) AROUND THAT TIME?

ANSWER 3:

- It’s because Hussein (radiyallahu ‘anhu) died on the 10th of Muharram

And they practice self-flagellation

 -The Shia killed Hussein and because they feel guilty over this, they continue to beat themselves until they bleed

Shia killed hussain[ra]: 

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The man who killed Sayyiduna Hussain (i.e. gave the death-blow) was a man by the name of Shimr bin Thil-Jawshan and he was a Shia, as recorded in both Sunni and Shia books. Shimr was part of the Shia, and then he betrayed Sayyiduna Hussain

and joined Yazid’s men, giving Sayyiduna Hussain the death-blow. To provide a solid proof of this fact (i.e. that Shimr was a Shia), we refer to the esteemed and classical Shia scholar, Al-Qummi. Al-Qummi, author of the famous book “Mafaatihul-Jinaan”, writes in his book: “I say, Shimr was in theforces of Ameer al-Mu’mineen on the Day of Siffin.” (Al-Qummi, “Safinatun-Najaat”, vol.4, p. 492, Chapter Sheen Followed by Meem)

- Muslims however fast on the 10th Muharram for a completely different reason:

Ibn Abbas (Allah be pleased with both of them) reported that when Allah's Messenger () came to Medina, he found the Jews observing the fast on the day of Ashura. They (the Jews) were asked about it and they said: It is the day on which Allah granted victory to Moses and (his people) Bani Isra'il over the Pharaoh and we observe fast out of gratitude to Him. Upon this the Apostle of Allah () said: We have a closer connection with Moses than you have, and he commanded to observe fast on this day.  (Muslim, Book 35, # 2518)

And then:- 

'A'isha (Allah be pleased with her) reported that the Messenger of Allah () had ordered to observe fast (on 'Ashura) before the fasting in Ramadan was made obligatory. But when it became obligatory, then he who wished fasted on the day of Ashura, and he who wished did not observe it (on that day).  (Muslim, Book 35, # 2502)

QUESTION 4: ARE MUJAHIDEEN EXEMPT FROM FASTING?

ANSWER 5:

- They are exempt from fasting

Abu Sa'eed al-Khudri (RA) said: 'We travelled with the Messenger of Allah () to Makkah (meaning at the Conquest of Makkah) and we were fasting. We stopped to camp and the Messenger of Allah () said: “You are approaching your enemy and breaking the fast will make you stronger.” This was a concession, and some of us continued to fast and some of us broke our fast. Then we stopped to camp again, and he said, “You are going to meet your enemy in the morning, and breaking the fast will make you stronger, so break your fast.” So we had no choice but to break our fast' [Sahih Muslim (2/789) No. 1120]

Abu Dawood (2365) narrated that one of the companions of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: I saw the Messenger of Allah () telling the people on a journey in the year of the Conquest (of Makkah) to break their fast. He said, “Gain strength to face your enemy.” 

He () travelled during Ramadan and he fasted and broke his fast and he left it to his Companions to decide which they preferred. He would order them to break their fast if they were near to the enemy, but it was not a part of his guidance to define the distance which a fasting person must travel. When the companions started out on a journey, they would break their fast, without consideration as to whether or not they had left behind their houses; and they informed us that that was the Sunnah of the Prophet () (Ibn al-Qayyim Al Jawziyyah, ‘Provisions for the Hereafter (Abridged)’ (page 120)

QUESTION 5:

MY LOCAL MASJID IN LONDON FOLLOWS THE 18 DEGREE RULE FOR SUBAH SADIQ SO MY SOHUR TIME FINISHES AND MY FAJR TIME STARTS AROUND 1.20 AM WHICH IS ALMOST 2 HOURS EARLIER THAN OTHER LOCAL MASJIDS. CAN YOU TELL ME IF THE 18 DEGREE RULE IS THE RIGHT RULE TO FOLLOW IN LONDON?

ANSWER 5:

- Please follow the timetable coming out of East London Masjid:

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.: Ramadhan Timetable 2026/1447 AH   Click link (View the Ramadan timetable)

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